Script 32 · from the Firm & Fair Playbook
How to tell employees someone was fired, without giving the reasons
Tell them yourself, the same day, together and in person, before the group chat writes its own version. Say who’s gone, as of when, and who’s covering what, and keep the reasons private:
“Jenna’s no longer working here, as of today.”
“I’m not going to get into the reasons. That stays between her and me, the same way it would for any of you.”
Then answer questions about the work, never about the reasons.
The situation
Wednesday at two you let Jenna go from your boutique. Carol, your assistant manager, was in the room, and nobody else knows yet. But two of your four part-timers close with Jenna every week, and by the 4:30 shift change the group chat will have its own version. What you say in the next few minutes decides whether this is a quiet Thursday or a week of whispering on the sales floor.
Before you talk
- Tell them soon, together, in person. Today, at the 4:30 shift change, while both shifts are in the store, and not by group text. Everyone hears the same words at the same time, and anyone who’s off gets a call from you tonight, with the same words.
- Write down what you’ll say. Use the team announcement as your script, don’t wing it, and post it by the register when you’re done.
- Decide who covers before you open your mouth: her Tuesday and Thursday closes, her Saturdays, the holds and special orders in her name.
- Decide what everyone tells customers. “Jenna is no longer with us. I’d be glad to help you.” That’s all anyone needs to say.
- Privacy is the rule. No reasons, no details, nothing about her private life or her family. That goes double when the reason involves missing money. Even if you’re sure, an accusation in front of the staff is a story you can’t control.
- Your team can talk. They’ll talk about Jenna on their break, and they’re allowed to. Federal labor law protects most non-supervisory employees’ right to talk with each other about work, and that can include what happened to a coworker. You keep your own counsel. You don’t get to gag theirs.
- If the departure touches a complaint, a leave, or anything else on the Check below, call your advisor about the wording before you say anything to anyone.
The first words
You“Before the switch, one thing. Jenna’s no longer working here, as of today.”
“I’m not going to get into the reasons. That stays between her and me, the same way it would for any of you.”
“Mia picks up Jenna’s Tuesday and Thursday closes this week and next. I’ll work Saturdays until we hire someone. The schedule’s posted by the register.”
What they’ll say, and what you say
They“Did she get fired or did she quit?”
You“She’s not working here anymore. That’s as far as I’m going with it.”
They“Somebody said it was about the returns.”
You“I’m not going to talk about her reasons. Not today, and not later. If it were you, you’d want the same.”
They“So is anybody else getting let go?”
You“I don’t talk about anyone’s job in a group. If you ever wonder where you stand, ask me one-on-one, and I’ll tell you straight.”
The Playbook’s full script also covers what to tell her regulars and whether the team can still see her, and what to do if it turns: if someone defends her loudly, takes it hard, brings up pay or conditions, or mentions the labor board, or if she shows up at the store.
Never say
- “Let’s just say we found out she wasn’t honest.”Why: Even if you’re sure, it will reach her tonight, word for word or worse. An accusation you made in front of your staff can turn into a legal problem of its own.
- “Nobody talks to Jenna, and nobody talks about this.”Why: You can’t order that. Your staff can talk about work with each other, and who they see after hours is theirs.
Write it down the same day
- Today, a short note: the date and time, who was there, what you said, the questions and your answers, and anyone you still need to call. Keep a copy of the announcement with it.
- Follow-ups go on the calendar. Anything you promised in the room gets written down, with a date.
- If she gets in touch. If Jenna texts any of your staff, that’s their business. If she contacts you, write down the date and what she said.
Before any write-up or firing: the Check
Trouble often starts with something reasonable done at the wrong moment: a write-up the week after a complaint, a firing right after a request for time off. The Playbook has you run the Check first.
Before you act, has any of this happened?
- They complained about something at work recently.
- They asked for time off, or for a change in how or when they work.
- They told you about something personal that may need time off or a change at work.
- There’s a workers’ comp claim.
- They were a witness in someone else’s complaint.
- They’ve talked with coworkers about pay or working conditions.
- The timing could look like payback.
- It’s a layoff, and you’re choosing someone 40 or older.
- Someone could believe the real reason is a different one.
Any yes: stop, and get advice before the next step.
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Should you tell employees why someone was fired?
No. Not to the crew, not to the regulars, not to the friend who asks after close. It’s private, and every detail you add is one more thing to be repeated wrong. That goes double when the reason involves missing money: an accusation in front of your staff can turn into a legal problem of its own. Say who’s gone, as of when, and who’s covering what.
Can I tell employees not to talk about it?
Don’t. Federal labor law protects most non-supervisory employees’ right to talk with each other about work, and that can include what happened to a coworker. A blanket rule against discussing it can create a problem of its own. Keep your own counsel and don’t add to the talk. Who they see after work is their business.
What should employees tell customers?
One sentence, then move on: “Jenna is no longer with us. I’d be glad to help you.” Decide it before you tell the team, so everyone gives the same answer. If your work takes you into clients’ homes or businesses, get back any keys or codes the person had, and tell those clients there’s been a staff change. You don’t owe them more detail than that.
Related
- Letting someone go for performance The plan ended and the numbers didn’t move. A short, decided, kind meeting.
- Laying someone off (the job goes, not the person) The work dropped and one job has to go. The meeting, from the criteria to the last check.
- Letting go someone who’s been there for years Fourteen years, then a final warning. A careful, generous exit that still holds up.
- Employee departure announcement The short note that tells your team who’s leaving and who covers what, with no reasons.
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